Where does sexual fear, guilt and shame originate from in your life? Does it stem from mainstream education, constrictive beliefs in your family, or religious beliefs?  Chantelle gives you the tools and practices to  shed any unhealthy or limiting beliefs and patterns that can influence your relationship to sexuality.  This week you will awaken to an open, loving acceptance of your sexual nature, desires and passion that is your birth right!

Whether you are in a male or female body, you hold the essence of both masculine and feminine energies within your being. This week you will learn how to deeply know yourself and cultivate these two energies, to create wholeness within.  This means the end of reaching to others for the qualities that are missing in yourself, including your sexual fulfillment.  It is then that you will radiate in your sensual aliveness, confidence and playfulness, knowing how to not only pleasure yourself, but another at a much deeper level than ever before.

The power of your sexuality is not only in your genitals, it is also in your heart. When you can utilise sexual energy as a force that radiates from both your sex center and your heart center, you will create a safe container that can hold much deeper intimacy and pleasure for yourself and with another.  Exploring the practice of sublimation, you will cultivate the freedom to take the focus off genital orgasm and reactive responses, into an experience of full-body aliveness where pleasure and ease circulate through your entire being.

At the center of our sexuality is our Sacral chakra, where our unprocessed emotions are stored: our fear, guilt and shame as well as past traumatic experiences. To open up spaciousness for pleasure, bliss and sensuality to enter our lives, we must be willing to release the energy stored at our Sacral chakra that no longer serves us. This week you will learn how to tune into, honour and clear your Sacral chakra so you may enter deeper intimacy with yourself, your lover, your emotions, your power, your vulnerability, your creativity, and the Earth.

The first step to enticing desire from another, is to entice your own desire, as when you feel sexy and confident in your own skin, that energy radiates out and magnetises people towards you. Learning how to feel sexy isn't just about what you look like, no matter how much our culture is glued to that belief, it's about how you think and feel about yourself, and becoming your own beloved and best lover. This week you will learn how to authentically entice desire from another, by coming into your unique expression of radiance, aliveness, confidence and receptivity.

When you know what your boundaries are and how to assert them healthily, you’ll be able to show up in your relationships with a sense of self-worth and value that teaches others how to attune to you physically, verbally, emotionally and energetically.  This week you’ll be learning how to move beyond the fear of rejection or losing love, by honouring yourself and speaking your authentic ‘Yes’ and ‘No’. This means no longer holding resentment, anger and fear in your body from doing things you didn’t really want to do.  This means speaking your truth through healthy communication, which is essential for deep trust and intimacy in and out of the bedroom. 

This week we explore the gift of surrender, where rather than trying to control people or situations and being attached to outcome, you can just let go, trust in life, trust in your beloved and trust your own intuition to guide you. Translated inside the bedroom, this means you let go of a goal orientated expectation towards orgasm, and instead embarking on a mystical journey together where a man can penetrate a woman with his presence, and she trusts him with her receptivity. By doing so a new level of sexual chemistry is activated that takes lovemaking into new dimensions.

Tantric massage is an ancient healing tool that is profoundly healing, spiritual and erotic. It can give us an experience of our essential nature and can be just as transformative for the giver as it is for the receiver.
With Tantric massage intention is everything. You’ll be guided with teachings and techniques to  feel the devotional space of fully showing up for someone in loving presence, without any agenda, to let love, intimacy and intuition flow. This will open the scope for incredible transformation, tenderness, connection and authenticity to be present, which is one of the greatest gifts that can be shared between two lovers.